Train Wreck

I have submitted a little profile and a picture of myself to a site very commonly used on the Internet ... looking like a train wreck.

This came about after my friend and I had a conversation on how superficial people really are. Being a man he denied this. Being a woman of course ...a debate commenced. A good example would be the program Ugly Betty that is new this season.

Admitted, chemistry is very important .... what is most important in a relationship ... obviously a healthy balance of mental and physical stimulation ... however, since we had both watched Ron Whites, "you can't fix stupid" DVD....the profile was developed. I happen to believe that the brain is the sexiest part! That is the question now isn't it?

I would in fact like to meet someone that could be a life long partner and that I could madly and passionately love. That is a given. So I didn't really see the harm this could do. Who knows right? Right.

So if you have come this far and you are reading this .... are YOU Mr. Right? Are you here to redeem my faith and restore all hope after a jaded past consumed my ideals regarding the possibility of a healthy relationship? If so .... I have been waiting for you for a long time .... please email right away!!!!

My train wreck profile has been viewed 123 times as of this morning .... with only a few polite responses!

Obviously it will take someone remarkable to realize what it is that I have to offer and am capable of in a relationship. Desperation is not an issue so I can be very selective at this point. I find it very unlikely I will meet the man of my dreams this way. I don't usually play the lottery. I do believe everything happens for a reason .... so lets give this a whirl. And despite the scar tissue that remains from the relationships of my past, I am still a hopeless romantic. And as society has drilled into every little girls head ... Mr. Right is out there .... you just have to believe!

Now it is my position that if I dress it up like a Blonde barbie without a brain ... I would be jamming with email. That is certainly an insult to both men and women isn't it? Very sad.

We will see how long I can tolerate the rejection and I will report back to you soon as to how many men are just in it for the package without brains!

I decided to use this specific picture to demonstrate a point to my friend. Even Barbie will sag and drag in time! What will you be left to do in an attempt to fix stupid? Well, my point has been proven before this post is even published. I will remove the profile today in fairness to men in general.

I have come to the conclusion, in just seconds, that mass level rejection is not a good thing even when you anticipate it all along. I have been the plain Jane in the crowd of Barbies my entire life. So that is nothing new. Do these men even read the person's profile? Certainly not!

However, it remains alarming to me none the less. I am up to 159 men who have zipped right by after one click on my profile to see my pretty picture! The Ugly Betty analysis is alive and very real in the world today.

Men are simply men and sex appeal still sells as it has for generation after generation. The plain Jane's of our society will continue to sit by the way side while Barbie gets all the action.

All in all ... when you get right down to it ... I rather have a brain. Everyone, to include all Barbie's everywhere, is without question... ugly in the morning ... everyone has bad breath and bed head.... I don't care how much beauty, money, education or charisma you have.... you too are an Ugly Betty in the morning!!! Clearly I was correct in my thought process.

I wonder ... does Barbie ever want to be plain? Oh damn, that's right, she doesn't have a brain! The poor thing! I feel so sorry for her ....

Cruz385, from the Bronx, thinks I am HOT! He seems like a very kind man, he is 48 and is in the construction field. You Go Cruz Barbie!!!