In The Middle of Now

Laugh More * Love More * See The World * Don't Be Afraid * A Sunrise Doesn't Last All Morning * A Cloud Burst Doesn't Last All Day * A Sunset Doesn't Last All Evening * Dare To Imagine * Become A Remarkable Life * All Things Must Pass * Make A Memory * Steal A Piece of Time * Peace * Love * Bliss

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Location: Santa Rosa Beach, Florida, United States

This blog is a running journal of random thoughts, daily experiences, some potentially useless information, interests, beliefs, causes, dreams and goals... so that we may share in the art of knowing... despite the vast differences in our geographic locations... in an effort to remain close and involved in each others distinctly unique lives.

27.11.06

Christmas - Birthdays In November

Grandma and Grandpa were here for Thanksgiving. We also celebrated Christmas since we will not be together for the holidays along with Grandpa and Patrick's Birthdays!

Grandpa made an oak chest and walnut special box for Patrick. Due to my spectacular abilities all of the pictures are complete shit. (I wasn't even drinking!) But you will get the general idea.

He has also made one for Bobby and when he returns to the US he will have to stop by his Grandfather's to pick it up. It would be too difficult to ship it to him in HI. The chests he makes are just beautiful. He also made me one that I am using for a coffee table and it is lined with cedar! The smell reminds me of the closets in the house he built that we used to live in on Hyde Road. I used to play in and hide in the closets when I was little.


Patrick also received his birthday present early from his Father! He was so thrilled I cannot describe it. He received Burton Cartel bindings and gloves!! In anticipation of the season and competitions he was allowed to open them early!



Patrick with his new bindings and board!!



Look! They Fit!!!




All Ready To Go!! Let it Snow ... Let it Snow .... Let it Snow!!!!!

23.11.06

Thanksgiving 2006


May your Thanksgiving be blessed with
rich harvests of prosperity, peace and happiness.

22.11.06

Lets Say Thanks

Despite anyone's individual views on Bush or the War ... there are troops making the ultimate sacrafice for a cause they may or may not even agree with. Even if you do not support the War please support the troops.

To honor U.S. military personnel and increase community morale, Xerox Corporation has created Let's Say Thanks, a national program designed to deliver millions of cards to servicemen and women overseas with messages of support from home.

For more information or to select and send a post card with a personal message by going to www.letssaythanks.com to check out the fantastic artwork kids around the country are submitting in support of the troops!

17.11.06

Tramandare

I guess we all have a choice or two to make in this life. Happy is after all .... a choice.

I choose to stop surrounding myself with people who consume me. I am a giver.... financially, emotionally, physically. And I guess as time passes and we each experience different things, we grow as individuals, in many different directions. None that are really right or wrong but just different directions.


We become people with different ideas, interests, dreams, goals and tolerances. Givers can be taken advantage of in a horrible way at times ... until they are nearly used up..... until they are sucked dry of every ounce of the energy they have within themselves.

I truly try to do the right thing no matter the cost to myself. And I will continue to live my life this way. Realizing that at times this can be a huge burden without measurable reward by any means.

I have consequently changed my blog address and those who remain sincere, and have a brain, will most likely locate me at this address. For the others ... what can I say? Best of Luck in all that you may endeavor into!

Maybe this is a step into further seclusion or possibly a step in the direction of a new path that will allow me to experience all that is waiting out there for me? That will be up to whoever is reading this ... how will you spin it? The choice is yours.

15.11.06

H.R. 1188

Currently, active duty military members and retirees of the uniformed services and the reserves may travel free on Department of Defense (DOD) aircraft when space is available. This benefit is allowed when it does not interfere with military missions and is a recognition of military careers filled with rigorous duty.

But present policies do not extend this benefit to our disabled veterans. What more rigorous duty can be imagined than to become disabled in the service of our country? Why has the DOD chosen not to recognize the brave men and women who sacrificed their health and well-being while serving in uniform? This DOD policy is wrong, and adding disabled veterans would not interfere with benefits for active-duty personnel. Current military is always given priority, and nothing would change that. What this bill would do is to allow seats that would otherwise go unused to be occupied by men and women who have been disabled in their service to their nation.

109th U.S. Congress (2005-2006)
H.R. 1188: Disabled Veterans Right
to Commissaries and Space Available Travel Act

To amend title 10, United States Code, to support disabled veterans by extending military commissary and exchange store privileges to such veterans and their dependents and by authorizing space-available travel on military aircraft for such veterans and their dependents.

Bill Summary
To amend title 10, United States Code, to support disabled veterans by extending military commissary and exchange store privileges to such veterans and their dependents and by authorizing space-available travel on military aircraft for such veterans and their dependents.

The following summary is provided by the Congressional Research Service, which is a government entity that serves Congress and is run by the Library of Congress.

3/9/2005 Introduced

Disabled Veterans Right to--Commissaries and Space Available Travel Act - Requires veterans with disabilities rated at 30 percent or more (and their dependents) to be permitted to use commissary and exchange stores on the same basis as members of the Armed Forces eligible for retired or retainer pay.

Directs the Secretary of Defense to provide transportation on Department of Defense aircraft on a space-available basis for any veteran with a service-connected disability rated at 50 percent or more (and their dependents) on the same basis as members entitled to retired or retainer pay.
Status: Introduced

This bill is in the first step in the legislative process. Introduced bills go first to committees that deliberate, investigate, and revise bills before they go to general debate.

The majority of bills
never make it out of committee!!!

Introduced: Mar 9, 2005
Sponsor: Rep. Bob Filner [D-CA]
Cosponsors:
Rep. Neil Abercrombie [D-HI]
Rep. Thomas Allen [D-ME]
Rep. Robert Andrews [D-NJ]
Rep. Joe Baca [D-CA]
Rep. Tammy Baldwin [D-WI]
Rep. Sanford Bishop [D-GA]
Rep. Timothy Bishop [D-NY]
Rep. Madeleine Bordallo [D-GU]
Rep. Julia Carson [D-IN]
Rep. Donna Christensen [D-VI]
Rep. Joseph Crowley [D-NY]
Rep. Elijah Cummings [D-MD]
Rep. Susan Davis [D-CA]
Rep. Peter DeFazio [D-OR]
Rep. Michael Doyle [D-PA]
Rep. Rahm Emanuel [D-IL]
Rep. Eni Faleomavaega [D-AS]
Rep. Barney Frank [D-MA]
Rep. Barton Gordon [D-TN]
Rep. Al Green [D-TX]
Rep. Raymond Green [D-TX]
Rep. Raul Grijalva [D-AZ]
Rep. Katherine Harris [R-FL]
Rep. Tim Holden [D-PA]
Rep. Rush Holt [D-NJ]
Rep. Michael Honda [D-CA]
Rep. Darlene Hooley [D-OR]
Rep. Bob Inglis [R-SC]
Rep. Eddie Johnson [D-TX]
Rep. Stephanie Jones [D-OH]
Rep. Barbara Lee [D-CA]
Rep. John Lewis [D-GA]
Rep. James Marshall [D-GA]
Rep. Jim Matheson [D-UT]
Rep. Cynthia McKinney [D-GA]
Rep. Michael Michaud [D-ME]
Rep. Bradley Miller [D-NC]
Rep. Jeff Miller [R-FL]
Rep. Eleanor Norton [D-DC]
Rep. John Olver [D-MA]
Rep. Major Owens [D-NY]
Rep. Donald Payne [D-NJ]
Rep. Collin Peterson [D-MN]
Rep. Todd Platts [R-PA]
Rep. Charles Rangel [D-NY]
Rep. Dutch Ruppersberger [D-MD]
Rep. Timothy Ryan [D-OH]
Rep. John Salazar [D-CO]
Rep. Bernard Sanders [I-VT]
Rep. Janice Schakowsky [D-IL]
Rep. Robert Scott [D-VA]
Rep. Robert Simmons [R-CT]
Rep. Mark Souder [R-IN]
Rep. Ted Strickland [D-OH]
Rep. Mark Udall [D-CO]
Rep. Tom Udall [D-NM]
Rep. Albert Wynn [D-MD]
Cosponsorship information sometimes is out of date.

Last Action: Jun 7, 2005: Introductory remarks on measure. (CR E1150)

Get the Cheapest Airfare ... or Not!!!


Getting the Cheapest Airfare in 4 to 11 Easy Steps

The Four Critical Steps

1) Search Engines. Visit all (not just one) of the search engine and meta-search engine sites—Expedia, Travelocity, etc. Plug in your departure and arrival cities and travel dates and see what price each comes up with. Regardless of which engine came up with them, write down the best three, including which search engine it was on and the airlines used. (Don't bother duplicating airlines; if Expedia will sell you a flight on American for $320 and Orbitz wants $370 for the same flight, chuck Orbitz.) The cheapest one should be considered the most you will end up paying. Now let's lower that ceiling.


2) Major Airlines. Hit all of the major airline sites to see if special sales and such—things not usually included on the search engines—might beat that price. Start with the three airlines that turned up the cheapest fares from the search engines, but when I say hit all major airlines, I mean (a) check all the US ones, (b) check the national airline(s) of the country to which you're flying, plus (c) check at least British Airways, Lufthansa, Iceland Air, and Air France (all of which frequently have good rates to cities in Europe besides those in their countries of origin). Do both a standard airfare search on your flight dates/cities, but also poke around the site for any link that touts the terms "sale," "promotion," "special fare," "e-saver," or anything else that looks like a special bargain. Jot down the best you get. That's your new highest price.

3) Consolidators. Now that you know the best you can do retail, go wholesale. Check out consolidator sites—you may have to call to get a specific price—and see if they can beat it. From major gateways, they usually can. Write that one down, too, and put a little box around it. It's probably the cheapest straight airfare you're going to find. There is, however, one last place to rummage for deals you might have missed.

4) Newsletters. Sometimes, a "Sale!" page on an airline site was just too well hidden, or you didn't know that for some funky reason there's a fantastic fare to Rome on KLM Dutch Airways. Comb through the main travel newsletter sites—Arthur Frommer's Budget Travel (disclaimer: where I work), Travelzoo, Smarter Living, Frommers.com (disclaimer: our main competition)—for listings or archived articles about ongoing sales and deals that they've already announced to their readers. (Heck, you should sign up for these free newsletters anyway as soon as you decide you'd eventually like to take a trip somewhere.)

We'll get to that "4 to 11" bit in just a minute. First, the two Big Questions.

How far in advance should I buy my ticket to get the best price?Never more than about 2 1/2 months before your departure date. Why? Because no one is discounting those seats yet, so you'll pay top dollar—which is misleading called the "lowest published fare."

As a general rule, the cheapest tickets will sell out more quickly during peak travel season (summer, Christmas), and fire-sale fares will pop up closer to travel dates in low season (winter). In other words, wait a bit longer in winter than in summer.

My advice? Buy about six to eight weeks out from your travel date. That's when consolidators lock in their fares, and most airlines will already be running sales by then if they plan to.

That said, during these crazy days for the tourism industry, it’s anybody's guess—travel is being affected daily by numerous factors: the US economy is in the toilet, travel numbers are down in droves, major airlines are in bankruptcy and/or mergers, there's a war on terrorism and in Iraq, fears linger over SARS (it only hit Asia and Toronto, yet European travel plummeted), there's that odd resentment toward the French...the list goes on.

How much should a flight to Europe cost?That depends on (a) where you're flying from and flying to, (b) when you fly, and (c) luck. In winter, you can fly from New York to London for as little as $170 roundtrip. In summer, $800 would be considered a reasonable price to get from Seattle to Madrid.

Where from: Flights to Europe are cheapest from the East Coast, especially New York/Newark (with Boston, Philly, and Washington/Baltimore right behind). Next lowest prices tend to come from other mega-hub cities and gateways (Atlanta, Chicago, LA). The way around this if you live elsewhere: the Big Apple Switcheroo.

Where to: London is always the cheapest European gateway to fly into, because it's close (less fuel), among Europe's most trafficked (high volume), and, unlike the rest of Europe, actually has two hometown rivals (British Airways and Virgin Atlantic) vying for your custom—never discount good old-fashioned Econ 101 competition as a great means to lower prices.

When: Winter is cheaper than summer; spring and fall are the mid-priced "shoulder seasons." (For more, read about travel seasons.)

Luck: You can make your own luck. Here's how.

How do I find the cheapest airfare?Ah, the heart of the matter.

Remember that old travel truism: like as not, no two people flying in the cheap seats actually paid the same price for their tickets, even though they're going to the same place and getting the same service. The guy in 22B might have ponied up $800, while the person in 22C with whom he amiably chats during takeoff paid just $190 (note to person in 22C: don't break it to him; you'll ruin his vacation).

This site will help you be that bloke in 22C. (As for the Big Spenders up in 2A and 11B, well, bully for you. But this site will never discuss life up on the other side of that little curtain of social status that separates us normal travelers from the expense-accounted folks in Business Class or, God forbid, First Class.)

The next several pages, while working fine on their own as resources, also take you through the four most important steps in tracking down the lowest fare possible, which are summed up (and cross-linked) in that sidebar up on the right: Search engines, Major airlines, Consolidators, and Newsletters.

After those four steps, you will have found the cheapest regular airfare you can get. Now, whether a cheaper one will pop up next week is anybody's guess. But you know what? Life's too short to spend all of your time wondering and waiting for just the right moment to strike when meanwhile you could be having a lifetime's worth of moments on a European vacation—and life's too precious to fret endlessly about saving an additional $50.

The Other Seven StepsSome of you won't be satisfied with the price you get after those four steps. That's why this section opened with the phrase "4 to 11" steps.

The other seven steps are all alternatives to straight airfare that may not appeal—or be available to—everyone: vacation packages that bundle airfare along with hotel stays or with rental cars, discounts for students and teachers, bidding sites like Priceline and opaque fare engines like Hotwire, the truth about last-minute deals, and two Reidsguides special tactics which I call The Big Apple Switcheroo—booking a cheap deal out of NYC and then using no-frills arilines to get to that gateway—and its Old World cousin The Big Ben Switcheroo—flying into London cheap (remember: London's always cheap), then onward into Europe using a no-frills airline.

If any of those methods or options floats your boat (er, flies your plane), click to those sections and keep trying to whittle down the overall price of your vacation. If you're happy with the regular airfare, then bon voyage! Book your tickets and then delve into other sections of this site to help plan the rest of your trip, from railpasses to picking hotels to saving money to speaking the lingo.

For more information see Reid Bramblett's article at: Reids Guides

Airfare Wars


Web sites that primarily list the millions of published fares-- and some special "Web fares"
American Express (Internet Travel Network) www.itn.net
http://www.trip.com/ acquired by Cheaptickets; link still works
Air Outlet Center www.airoutlet.com
Cheap Tickets www.cheaptickets.com
Council Travel www.counciltravel.com
LastMinuteTravel www.lastminutetravel.com
LowAirfare.com www.lowairfare.com
Lowestfare.com www.lowestfare.com
OneTravel.com www.onetravel.com
STA Travel www.statravel.com
America West Airlines www.americawest.com
American Trans Air www.ata.com
Frontier Airlines www.flyfrontier.com
JetBlue Airways www.jetblue.com
Midwest Express Airlines www.midwestexpress.com
National Airlines www.nationalairlines.com
Southwest Airlines www.southwest.com
Sun Country Airlines www.suncountry.com
Vanguard Airlines http://www.flyvanguard.com/
Alaska Airlines www.alaskaair.com
American Airlines www.aa.com
ContinentalAirlineswww.continental.com
Delta Air Lines www.delta.com
HawaiianAirlineswww.hawaiianair.com
Northwest Airlines www.nwa.com
United Air Lines www.ual.com
Airfare Planet www.airfareplanet.com
AirTreks.com www.airtreks.com
EasyJet.com www.easyjet.com
Europe onlyebookers.com www.ebookers.com
EuropeByAir www.europebyair.com
Flights.com (TISS) www.flights.com
Europe-onlyTravelSelect www.travelselect.com
Student Universe www.studentuniverse.com
Flight Centre www.flightcentre.ca

The Holidays .... in November?

Well it appears that the "holidays" have arrived early this year. Christmas is here in November in an attempt to meet the postal mailing guidelines. How festive is that?

I have completed my Christmas shopping, the gifts are wrapped and in their respective boxes to be mailed to the kids.

It hardly seems like Christmas anymore. Maybe next year I will just leave all the decorations packed away and just write a check from some fabulous location I have always dreamed of.

Now that Bobby has a house of his own and is starting his own family ... maybe it is time to pass on the Pizzelle iron?

11.11.06

Veteran's Day

A Tribute to Veteran's Day
History of November 11th

In 1918, on the eleventh hour of the eleventh day in the eleventh month, the world rejoiced and celebrated. After four years of bitter war, an armistice was signed. The "war to end all wars" was over. In 1921, an unknown World War I American soldier was buried in Arlington National Cemetery.

Similar ceremonies occurred earlier in England and France, where an unknown soldier was buried in each nation's highest place of honor (in England, Westminster Abbey; in France, the Arc de Triomphe).

These memorial gestures all took place on November 11, giving universal recognition to the celebrated ending of World War I fighting at 11 a.m..

Armistice Day officially received its name in America in 1926 through a Congressional resolution. It became a national holiday 12 years later by similar Congressional action. If the idealistic hope had been realized that World War I was "the War to end all Wars," November 11 might still be called Armistice Day. But only a few years after the holiday was proclaimed, war broke out in Europe.

Realizing that peace was equally preserved by veterans of WW II and Korea, Congress was requested to make this day an occasion to honor those who have served America in all wars. In 1954 President Eisenhower signed a bill proclaiming November 11 as Veterans Day.

A law passed in 1968 changed the national commemoration of Veterans Day to the fourth Monday in October. It soon became apparent, however, that November 11 was a date of historic significance to many Americans. Therefore, in 1978 Congress returned the observance to its traditional date.


Pearl Harbor survivor Houston James, of Dallas, embraces Marine Staff Sergeant Mark Graunke Jr., during a Veterans Day commemoration in Dallas. Graunke lost a hand, a leg and an eye when he defused a bomb in Iraq.


10.11.06

Autobiography of a Yogi

Biography Paramahansa Yogananda

Paramahansa Yogananda was born in Gorakphur India January 5th 1893. Gorakphur is in the north of India and is associated with the great saint Gorakshanath who lived in the 10th - 12th Century. Yogananda was brought up in a devout loving Hindu family. At an early age Yogananda’s mother passed away and this pushed the young Mukunda (as he then was) into a deep grief. However this experience encouraged Yogananda to seek beyond the world and practise spiritual discipline.

In his famous autobiography of a Yogi he explains how his early life was filled with visiting various the various saints of Bengal and seeking to learn from their spiritual wisdom. One of these early teachers was Master Mahasaya who was a direct disciple of Sri Ramakrishna and wrote the Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna. Yogananda’s interest in spiritual studies did not however extend to academic studies and his book explains how he sought to do as little academic work as possible. In fact at one point he left home to go on a pilgrimage to the Himalayas. His family however disapproved of his tendency to “renounce the world” and he was found by his brother and bought back. At the age of 17 years Yoganada met his Spiritual Master Sri Yukteswar. Sri Yukteswar was a disciple of Lahiri Mahasaya who in turn had received initiation from the immortal Babaji in the Himalayas. On becoming a disciple of Sri Yukteswar Yogananda spent most of his time in the ashram of his Master where he practised meditation for many hours on end seeking to attain a glimpse of the cosmic consciousness.

After many years of practise and another aborted trip to the Himalaya’s Yoganada attained his long sought after experience through the grace of his Master Sri Yutkeswar. Yogananda explains his experience of Samadhi

“My body became immovably rooted; breath was drawn out of my lungs as if by some huge magnet. Soul and mind instantly lost their physical bondage, and streamed out like a fluid piercing light from my every pore. The flesh was as though dead, yet in my intense awareness I knew that never before had I been fully alive. My sense of identity was no longer narrowly confined to a body, but embraced the circumambient atoms. People on distant streets seemed to be moving gently over my own remote periphery. The roots of plants and trees appeared through a dim transparency of the soil; I discerned the inward flow of their sap”.


In 1917 Yogananda started work as a teacher in a school in Ranchi. The school was a special combination of modern educational methods and the ancient Indian Yoga systems to promote spiritual and physical well being. Mahatma Gandhi visited the school and was moved to say:“This institution has deeply impressed my mind.” Increasingly Yogananda felt a call to travel to America and with his Guru’s blessings Yogananda left India for America in 1920 as a delegate to an international congress of religious leaders in Boston. In 1924 he returned to America to begin a lecture tour in which he offered the highest spiritual ideals of Vedanta in a format appropiate for modern American audiences. It was also in 1924 that Yogananda founded the Self Realisation Fellowship an organisation dedicated to promoting the ideals of Yogananda and providing an opportunity for seekers to practise his teachings.

Over the next 20 years the teachings of Yogananda prospered and many sincere seekers were attracted to the yoga system and teachings he offered. Therefore Yogananda sought to establish a spiritual community or ashram in Los Angeles. This has now become the headquarters of the Self Realisation Fellowship.

In 1935 Yogananda returned to India for 18 months. Here he embarked on another tour meeting many of India’s great saints of the days. These included Mahatma Gandhi, Ramana Maharshi and Sri Anandamayi Ma. And are recounted in his bestselling book “Autobiography of a Yogi”.

After returning to America Yoganada retreated somewhat from public life seeking to spend more time in meditation and writing spiritual guidance for the future when he was no longer living. On March 7th 1952 Yogananda entered mahasamadhi (which is a Yogi’s conscious decision to leave the body). He left behind a legacy of spiritual poetry and writings and his teaching flourish to this day.

Related Pages:

Paramahansa Yogananda




"By deep meditation...calm the waves of thought and desire that constitute your present perception of reality. Then in superconsciousness you will behold everything as it really is."


--Paramashansa Yogananda

5.11.06

La Coppia Felice - Bobby e Risa

2.11.06

New York, New York - Frank Sinatra

1.11.06

Global Healing

Through a mutual friend, Nicola, I have had the opportunity to interact with an individual who is truly making a difference in this life, and consequently impacting the lives of people all around the world. Please meet Cindy Basso. You will be both humbled and amazed at the impact this one individual has on the future of so many societies around the globe.

"I believe that strengthening the health and education of a nation will only make it a more peaceful place, allowing people the ability to live life to the fullest."

--Cindy Basso-Eaton, President, Global Healing

Global Healing is a U.S. & U.K.-based non-profit organization dedicated to bringing modern medicine to the developing world. Their goal is to empower a population to take care of its own. They do this through working directly with local governments, healthcare providers, businesses, public institutions and private citizens to not only ensure the success of their program but also make certain they will attain self-sufficiency. For more information visit Global Healing on the web.

Margaret Mead

"Never underestimate the ability of a small group of committed individuals to change the world. Indeed, they're the only ones who ever have."
-- Margaret Mead, Pioneering Anthropologist

Happy 21st Birthday Bobby!!!

Today well lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness
and every tomorrow a vision of hope.
You deserve a lifetime of beautiful tomorrows!
HAPPY 21st BIRTHDAY BOBBY!!
You are a very special person with very special gifts.
Wishing you wonderful birthday memories
that you will hold close in your heart!
Love Always, Mom and Patrick

Dean Martin

Dean Martin - By Special Request .... very funny!

Click here to watch the "Blue Moon" video -

You cannot help but laugh!